IOOF — The Odd Fellows and the Three Links of Friendship, Love, and Truth

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A Secret Societies field entry. Three links of a chain — Friendship, Love, and Truth — are the whole secret of the Odd Fellows. One of the oldest and largest fraternal orders in the world, the Independent Order of Odd Fellows banded ordinary working people together to visit the sick, relieve the distressed, bury the dead, and raise the orphan, in an age before any social safety net — and it was the first American fraternity to admit women. With its lodges, regalia, and memento-mori symbolism, it has the forms of a secret society and the heart of a charity. This room lays out the order from the sourced record.

The Independent Order of Odd Fellows — the Odd Fellows, or IOOF — is among the oldest, largest, and most quietly admirable of all the fraternal orders: a non-political, non-sectarian international fraternal society, also known as the Triple Link Fraternity for its “triple links” emblem and its motto, Friendship, Love, and Truth. Like the Freemasonry it resembles, it gathers members into lodges, advances them through ceremonial degrees, clothes its meetings in ritual and symbol, and binds them by fellowship. But its purpose, like that of the Knights of Columbus, is openly and entirely benevolent: in the order’s famous command, to “visit the sick, relieve the distressed, bury the dead, and educate the orphan.” In an age long before government welfare or modern insurance, the Odd Fellows were a genuine lifeline — a mutual-aid brotherhood that cared for its members and their families in sickness, poverty, and death — and it broke ground as the first American fraternity to welcome women. This room gathers the order’s curious name, its founding, its symbols, the sisterhood it created, and the charitable mission that is its true and open secret.

The curious name

The name “Odd Fellows” is itself a small mystery, with several competing explanations. One traditional account holds that in earlier centuries, workers of various small and miscellaneous trades — too few in any one craft to form a guild of their own — banded together into societies of “odd” (that is, assorted) fellows for mutual support. Another holds that it was simply considered odd — unusual — to find ordinary people organising themselves to perform charitable acts and care for one another without compulsion. Whatever its precise origin, the name came to stand for a brotherhood of common people united for mutual aid and good works, and the order embraced it. The Odd Fellows were, proudly, the society of those whom it was “odd” to find doing so much good.

From England to Baltimore

Odd Fellowship evolved from the Order of Odd Fellows founded in England in the eighteenth century, but the order as it is known today took its decisive form in America. On April 26, 1819, Thomas Wildey — an English immigrant — and a handful of associates, gathered in Baltimore in response to a newspaper advertisement, founded Washington Lodge No. 1 at the Seven Stars Tavern. The new body was originally chartered by the Independent Order of Oddfellows Manchester Unity in England, but it has operated as an independent organisation since 1842 (while maintaining an inter-fraternal relationship with the English Order). From that Baltimore beginning the IOOF flourished, becoming one of the largest fraternal organisations anywhere, with lodges in towns large and small and the grand “Odd Fellows Hall” a fixture of countless main streets across America and beyond.

Friendship, Love, and Truth

The heart of the Odd Fellows is captured in their central emblem: the three links of a chain, bearing the letters F, L, TFriendship, Love, and Truth. These are the three bonds that unite the members, and the moral foundation of the entire order — the source of its nickname, the Triple Link Fraternity. Around them the Odd Fellows developed a rich symbolic language, much of it concerned with mortality, charity, and moral instruction: the heart-in-hand (charity given sincerely), the all-seeing eye, and the skull and other memento-mori imagery reminding members of life’s brevity and the duty to do good while there is time. Members advance through ceremonial degrees, each unfolding more of this symbolism and its lessons. The three-link chain remains the order’s universal badge — the visible sign of the bonds that hold the brotherhood together.

A brotherhood — and a sisterhood

The Odd Fellows hold a landmark distinction in the history of American fraternal orders: they were the first fraternity in the United States to include women. In 1851, the order adopted the “Beautiful Rebekah Degree” — a degree for women, named for the biblical Rebekah — by the initiative of Schuyler Colfax, an Odd Fellow who would later become Vice-President of the United States. The Daughters of Rebekah, the women’s auxiliary, became a vital and active part of the order’s charitable work, and the Odd Fellows’ early willingness to build a formal place for women set them apart from the many orders that remained strictly male. It is one of the more progressive features of the entire fraternal tradition — a sisterhood woven into the brotherhood, generations ahead of its time.

The work of mutual aid

The true substance of the Odd Fellows is their charity and mutual aid. In the era before social security, unemployment insurance, or public welfare, the order functioned as a genuine safety net for its members: paying benefits to the sick and the unemployed, caring for widows and orphans, and ensuring a decent burial for the dead — the literal fulfillment of its command to visit the sick, relieve the distressed, bury the dead, and educate the orphan. The IOOF built and ran homes for orphans and for the elderly, funded by the dues and devotion of its members — a private, fraternal welfare system that cared for thousands. This was the order’s reason for being, and its great achievement: turning the bonds of friendship, love, and truth into concrete protection for ordinary people against the cruelties of nineteenth- and early-twentieth-century life.

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Form and substance

Honesty, kept fair: like the Knights of Columbus, the Odd Fellows appear in a secret-societies survey because they share the form of the fraternal order — lodges, degrees, regalia, ritual, and a measure of ceremonial privacy — but not the conspiratorial substance the term sometimes implies. The order’s existence and purpose have always been public; its “secrets” are the private ceremonies of its degrees, not hidden agendas. The memento-mori symbolism and the ritual can look mysterious from outside, but their lessons are moral and benevolent, not occult or sinister. The Odd Fellows are, in truth, a non-political, non-sectarian fraternal benefit society — another reminder, alongside the Knights of Columbus, that the gathering of ordinary people behind a lodge door has far more often built mutual aid and fellowship than hidden power.

The order today

The Independent Order of Odd Fellows declined from its early-twentieth-century peak, as government welfare and modern insurance took over much of the role it once filled, but it endures — still organised in lodges around the world, still bound by the three links, still doing charitable work in its communities. For the student of fraternal societies, the Odd Fellows are a classic and clarifying example: a once-mighty order of ordinary working people, rich in symbol and ceremony, devoted to the simple and noble ends of friendship, love, truth, and mutual care — and a pioneer in opening its fellowship to women. The three-link chain still says it all: a brotherhood (and sisterhood) whose only real secret was the resolve to look after one another.

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Knights of Columbus · Freemasonry · Ancient Order of Druids · Secret Societies General

Sources & further reading

  • The IOOF as a non-political, non-sectarian fraternal order (“the Triple Link Fraternity”); its evolution from the 18th-century English Order of Odd Fellows
  • The American founding: Thomas Wildey and Washington Lodge No. 1 at the Seven Stars Tavern, Baltimore, April 26, 1819; the original Manchester Unity charter and independence from 1842
  • The motto and emblem (Friendship, Love, and Truth; the three links); the heart-in-hand, all-seeing eye, and memento-mori symbolism
  • The first U.S. fraternity to include women: the “Beautiful Rebekah Degree” (1851) by the initiative of Schuyler Colfax (later U.S. Vice-President), and the Daughters of Rebekah
  • The mutual-aid mission (“visit the sick, relieve the distressed, bury the dead, and educate the orphan”) and the homes for orphans and the elderly

Weigh in

  • “Visit the sick, relieve the distressed, bury the dead, educate the orphan” — how much did orders like this matter before the welfare state?
  • The Odd Fellows admitted women in 1851, the first U.S. fraternity to do so — how does that set them apart in the fraternal tradition?
  • The memento-mori symbolism looks dark from outside but teaches charity — how do you read it?
  • Like the Knights of Columbus, the Odd Fellows blur the line between “secret society” and charitable brotherhood — where does the line fall for you?

Reply below. Bring your knowledge of the Odd Fellows, your fraternal-order lore, and your read on the three links — this room is built to weigh them all.